The present study has been carried out with a sociological approach and with the aim of formulating a national defense strategy in intelligent confrontation with virtual social networks and with the method of quantitative content analysis and grounded theory. This study, while showing the need to change approaches from confrontational approaches to cultural and social approaches, examines cyberspace cycles and policies in the country and the strategies of other countries in the face of virtual social networks and introduces five strategies and finally to An approach has been reached that instead of focusing on the sender of the message, its focus is on the addressee and the recipient of the message. For this purpose, through interviews with 78 professors in the field of media and communications and members of the Supreme Virtual Council of the country, a national security strategy in the face of social networks has been developed. The results indicate that these strategies should be in the four areas of policy, hardware and software, culture and awareness and education in order to empower the audience against the harms of consuming this media, the ability to consciously and analytically deal with Create the dangers of social networks in them. Therefore, it should be said that lack of attention or lack of attention to the audience of social networks can cause problems for our national security at the micro, medium and macro levels. Finally, it can be concluded that with a cultural and social attitude and with a determination to solve existing problems and problems, active presence, participation and confrontation in this area should be replaced by passive observation.